Design lesson: Easy greetings

Holiday entertaining—the idea is that you plan a brilliant party for everyone who's important to you, execute it flawlessly while looking your absolute best, and do it during the busiest time of year. It's enough to give even a consummate entertainer a case of stage fright. Try these tried-and-true ways to get you and yours through the holidays with ease.

Dos and don'ts
DO keep it simple. There's nothing entertaining about a host who's too exhausted to enjoy her own party. Ask for help, and consider renting dishes for a large gathering.

DO consider a tree adorned only with white lights or completely bare -- marvel at nature's perfection. Wrap the base in natural burlap, a luscious throw made of wool or a cosy quilt.

DO use the Internet to save time shopping. Determine the party's theme, and search for items like tablecloths, napkins, candles and party favours that can be delivered to you. Not only does that save you a trip to the mall, you can enjoy the experience while drinking hot cider and listening to your favourite music.

DON'T buy special holiday decorations; use what you have. Add sparkle to the table with vintage or costume jewelry. Rhinestone brooches, shiny clip-on earrings and chunky plastic beads all look great when displayed with enthusiasm. Fill decorative bowls with oranges, pomegranates, apples or nuts. In the kitchen, fill a wire or woven breadbasket with boxwood cuttings and red pears.

DON'T do it all yourself. If your children are grown, have them contribute to a potluck dinner. Your favourite aunt may be thrilled to make a fruitcake for the occasion. Let everyone participate.