25 surefire entertaining tips

15 Strive for elegance, yet simplicity when entertaining:

Tip #1: preparation in advance allows the host to be an integral part of the conversation with your guests. Being in the kitchen constantly lends itself to other guests feeling guilty if they don't offer you a hand.

Tip #2: Make an appetizer that invites curiosity—it will start the flow of conversation immediately.
Laurie Kingdoq, Vancouver B.C.

16 I invite guests for dinner to benefit a good cause, like the Canadian Breast Cancer Foundation. Guests are always happy to contribute to a good cause.
Marie-Claire Hurteau, Montreal Que.

17 It's very important to make your guests feel like you really want them to be in your home, be it by letting them choose the music, helping you make the salad or just sitting and relaxing.
Melanie Jantzie, Calgary Alta.

18 My surefire entertaining tip is not to sit couples who know each other together. That way they have to talk to people they don't know. Everyone always has a wonderful time plus they all meet new people.
Steven Singer, Ottawa Ont.

19 We have a group of six couples that meet every six to seven weeks at a different house for a dinner party. Instead of bringing host/hostess gifts, we bring a $20 cheque to go to breast cancer research. So it's great, every six to seven weeks you get a fabulous three or four course meal, plus cocktails and after dinner drinks for just $20, and the money goes to such a worthy cause.
Kathleen Ward, Gambo Nfld.

20 Always speak to every guest and make them feel an important part of the gathering.
Patricia Fulgham, Madeira Park B.C.

21 Always put out fresh flowers.
Brenda Lacourciere, Sudbury Ont.

22 Don't be afraid to ask for help!
Brenda Brelis, Calgary Alta.

23 I always have goodies in the freezer for unexpected guests. Whether it is fancy cookies or plain old butter tarts, everybody appreciates a yummy goodie!
Wilson Cordella, Houston B.C.

24 Always have extra money on hand to have taxis take your guests home after a few drinks.
Deborah Bell, Niagara Falls Ont.

25 Have fun and quit worrying about what people think.
Kellea Johnston, Newmarket Ont.

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